Common Questions About Therapy in Orlando
Frequently Asked Questions
Most people don't know what to ask a therapist. They're not sure what they're looking for, what to expect, or whether any of this is actually for them. These are the most common questions I get asked
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I work with adults in Orlando, dealing with anxiety, depression, ADHD, and Neurodivergence. Many people come in because they find themselves running in the same pattern, unsure of how to change. If you’re not sure your situation fits a category, reach out anyway.
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Yes. A lot of our work together focuses on acceptance, coping, and cultivating your unique strengths. You don’t need a formal diagnosis to work with me. Many clients are self-identified or still figuring it out.
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You don’t have to be in crisis to benefit. Many people come in functioning fine on the outside while feeling stuck, exhausted, or disconnected. Therapy tends to work better when you start before things fall apart.
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My background is in psychodynamics. That means that a lot of our work together will focus on what’s underneath what’s happening. For instance, if someone comes in struggling with drinking, we’ll address the drinking to some extent, but most of it will be focused on what’s underneath the drinking, such as boredom and loneliness. Then what’s underneath that, perhaps a history of rejection. And so on. I wrote a wonderful post about it.
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That’s common, and it usually comes down to fit or approach, not you. A lot of my approach is about exploring what’s underneath, which is somewhat uncommon, as they don’t teach it in school any more. Tell me on our consult what didn’t work before, and I’ll tell you honestly whether I’d do it differently.
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Totally normal, and it’s a fine place to start. I won’t push you toward changes you’re not ready for. Sometimes the work is just figuring out what you want.
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No judgment, and I won’t tell you how to live. Of course, I’ll offer alternative perspectives and courses of actions, but the choices you make must be 110% yours, as this is your life to live.
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Most people don’t, and it’s not a problem. I’ll guide the first sessions with questions, so you don’t have to arrive with an agenda.
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We’ll talk through what brought you in, what you’ve tried, and what you’d like to be different. I’ll ask background questions, and you can ask me anything. By the end we’ll have a rough plan, and you’ll know whether I’m the right fit.
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Most clients start weekly or every other week. Some work with me for a few months, others longer, depending on goals. We’ll check in regularly about whether it’s working.
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Most people come to counseling when they’ve reached the edge of something. not necessarily a crisis, but a sense that continuing the same way isn’t working anymore.
If you’re finding yourself stuck, conflicted, disconnected, or quietly exhausted by your own patterns, counseling can be a place to slow down and take an honest look. You don’t need certainty. You need curiosity and a willingness to look honestly at yourself.
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People often come in feeling inwardly tense, self-critical, disconnected from themselves or others, or unsure why life feels harder than it “should.” Some are struggling with anxiety or depression; others feel functional but hollow, stuck, or divided against themselves.
Not everyone comes with a diagnosis. Many come because something feels off and they want to understand why. Often, people aren’t falling apart, they’re tired of holding themselves together.
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The first session is a conversation, not an assessment.
We’ll talk about what brought you in, what you’ve been wrestling with, and what you’re hoping might be different. There’s no pressure to perform, explain yourself perfectly, or cover everything at once. We’re getting oriented — to you, to the work, and to whether this feels like a good fit.
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That's often where the work begins. We might start with a feeling you can't name, something that happened recently, or just the discomfort of sitting in a room with a stranger. There's no wrong entry point. Vagueness is something we work with, not something you need to resolve before showing up.
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No.
This isn’t a space for moralizing, diagnosing your character, or handing you instructions for how to live. I’m interested in understanding you, how you think, feel, relate, and protect yourself; not correcting you.
You’re free to disagree, push back, or say when something doesn’t land.
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Most therapy today is skills-based and focused on managing symptoms. That's useful for some people. My work goes a different direction. We pay attention to what's underneath the symptoms, not just the symptoms themselves. The conflicts, the patterns, the ways you relate to yourself and other people. If you want to understand yourself, not just cope better, that's what this is built for.
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That matters.
Therapy fails more often because of fit than because “therapy doesn’t work.” Different approaches ask different things of people. If something felt shallow, mechanical, or misaligned before, that’s worth naming. We can talk directly about what didn’t help, and what you don’t want to repeat.
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You don’t need to want change. You need to want honesty.
Ambivalence is common. Sometimes change feels threatening, exhausting, or unclear and forcing it usually backfires. We can spend time understanding what’s keeping you where you are, without pushing or pretending readiness that isn’t there.
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Most people start weekly. How long the work lasts is something we talk about openly rather than something that just happens to you. Some people are here for a few months, others much longer. That depends on what you're working through and how deep you want to go. There's no default timeline and no pressure in either direction.
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Yes.
Counseling is confidential, with a few clear legal exceptions related to immediate safety. I’ll explain those directly so you know exactly where the boundaries are. Trust depends on clarity, not assumptions.
BEFORE YOU REACH OUT
Practical Details
Location: In-person, Orlando / Baldwin Park, virtual available through FL
Format: Individual therapy only
Approach: Psychodynamic, depth-oriented, counseling in Orlando
Payment: Private pay, $150 (sliding scale may be available)
Located: 871 Outer Rd,Suite D, Orlando, FL 32814
Specialties: Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Veterans, and Men’s Issues
The only remaining question is:
What’s holding you back?
What’s 15 minutes?